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Sorry for being late in submitting this blog. Being a working adult is not easy man. U dont have enough time to do all the things we used to do in university. Sigh… Ok back to my topic. Well Adrian, I would say it’s not easy too becoming a gf. Haha…Let me give u an example: say i think to lineup for some delicious donuts is not silly, but the bf thinks it is. So what can the gf do? Sulk? Just close an eye and forget abt it? Hmm…pretty difficult, I would say. If u sulk too much, it’ll sound silly. But if u forget abt it, then…hahaha…=P it’s like how come the gal cant have our own opinion? Get what I mean? Hehe…So that’s why I said it’s not easy too becoming a gf.

Another example is abt waiting. When u’re still single, u dont have to wait for anyone. Like or not, we can just go out on our own. But when u have a partner, it’s like no matter what, you still have to compromise your time with his. Sometimes, it’s not easy too. But this is just life - GIVE & TAKE. And if he turns out late, we cant show faces. He’ll be giving you all sort of possible reasons that sometimes you’ll think it’s a bit lame but cant do anything at all. We cant possibly be waiting for them all time. And if it’s the other way round, they will be sulking there all day long. No matter what reasons we gave they’ll be thinking it must be the make-up time. Sigh…it’s difficult too, Adrian. Hehe…=P Well, i dont know if the rest of the gals are facing this problem, but it’s just my opinion. Hehe…

Well I once discussed this topic with a guy friend. The first thing that came out from his mouth was, ‘Ms. Kwee Hoon, what do you expect from a relationship? Romance? Good & bad times together? Or wat?’ ….hmm…I find it hard to answer him. Romance? which girl doesnt like their bf to be romantic? Hehe..ok, ok of course not all the while la. That I understand, so romance isnt the answer at all. Sharing good & bad times together? Hehe…obviously! But it’s very subjective still. How do you define good &bad times? In the end, I think it’s all abt the couple themselves. For me, I like it simple. As long as we are happy together, then everything is fine for me. Obviously he has to treat me well. Hehe..Can I ask for more? =P

But my friend continue asking, ‘treating u well meaning? putting u as his priority?’ as his priority?? well, who doesnt like being treated as the top priority? but being a realist, we also have to consider the commitment our partners have. So as for me (now), i dont know where exactly I stand in my bf’s heart. Hehe..But he treats me well. No complain here k. Dont misunderstood me. Sometimes, i might be complaining at certain small stuff. But..hehe..blame it on my moodiness. Haha.. =P Usually, i wont complain to him. I’ll just pour it out to my chi muis (thanks alot for being there, babes!! =)). Then things will be much better, as in my feelings. I dont know if it’s good or bad in not letting my bf know abt my feelings sometimes. But i dont want to trouble him. Dont know if it’s right or not..hehe..=P Kindly advise or share your experiences.