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Hehe…Just as I was browsing thru for nice comments/ graphics for the Birthday boys & girls, I found this is zwani.com. Hehe… "Better to understand a little than to misunderstand a lot". Hehe…=) Guess it answers to my previous post. Hihi…Anyhow, thanks too to Ah Ho, Elaine & Adrian for such a lovely comments. Ah Ho was right when he said that it’s better to know less at times. I truly agree with him. Hehe…Actually, this has remain as my philosophy ever since I went to Sabah. Haha…Ermm..well, I suppose we’ll just remain it as a history. Hee…

Elaine gave an even better comment: that everyone HAS a history that shapes them to be whom they are today. And I supposed she feels that I was lacking in my self-confidence. Well…in a way, Elaine is right. If I’m confident enough about myself, then why would I care so much about it? Aint it true? Hehe…Another thing that Laine emphasized is on thrust. Yes, I agree with her as the main ingredient of a successful relationship is based on thrust. I trust him, yes I do. Oh God, Laine, u’re so much more mature than me! Hahaha…Thanx a lot man! Gosh…Hehe…I guess, when we’re in love everything will turn topssy turvvy…Haha…Erm, wonder if I’m right or not..=P

Meanwhile, Adrian has quite a nice topic that he has brought up. Hehe…Thanx Ant! Didnt know u’ll read my blog. Coz mine is so lousy as compared to urs. Hehe…=P Great job, Ant! Ok, ok…I quote Ant: It is hard being a girl, equally hard to be a boy with a girlfriend hahaha…Though I’m a girl, but I was forced to agree with u, however it’ll be partially agreed. =P

Ok I’ll tell u all abt the outcome of my previous post ya. Hehe…I choose to see the pictures. It’s a decision that wasnt that right. Haha…but what is done is done ya. Hehe…Curiosity really kills the cat! And this proverb is absolutely true in my case. Out of curiosity, I took the courage to see it. Haha..madness…We shall leave the details behind & I will just update u abt what I think after that. It’s like I sort of regretting my actions. Wish so much to turn back time. I wish that I didnt see those pics. That’s the reason why I agreed fully to the quote-of-the-day. Hahaha….=P I wish I’d never knew so much, has more confidence in myself & it’s equally hard for my bf. =P Haha…poor thing. If only, I choose not to see those pics.

Ok, so here is where I’m gonna share my views abt what Adrian had mentioned. Well people, u see, being concern as a friend & being concern as a gf is totally different. I dont know for the rest, but for me, it’s like that. Let me give u an example: We’ll start with the role as a friend first. Ok, as a pal, half way chatting with the other party and he/she suddenly tells u that he/she has something going on (nothing urgent actually, eg. playing games), would u feel upset? No rite? Ok, u’ll tell them, ‘…it’s ok, we’ll chat some other time…’ . Am I rite? But being the gf, u are excited to chat with him to update him on your daily stuff. And halfway thru he stopped u, telliing dat it’s time for his games. What would u feel then? Hehehe…so u get what I mean? =P But like what Adrian (a.k.a Ant) said, it’s equally hard for the guy who has a gf too! I do agree with him too! What if u suddenly cant do something u like just because u have ur the other half? isnt it ridiculous? Hehe…Something to ponder….

*to be continued…..

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